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December 2006 update letter
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The Go Home Foundation
PO Box 1509
Glen Ellen, CA 95442-1509
www.rossdillon.com
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December, 2006
Dear Friends,
We have just celebrated Thanksgiving and again we are reminded of Ross Dillon’s remarkable
progress and of you, the faithful people whose donations fund Ross’s rehabilitation. As the end
of the year approaches, I want to update you on Ross’s recent advances and give you a brief
accounting of his rehabilitation expenses and the giving that makes it all possible.
Ross’s family writes:
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“Ross’s latest gains are in trunk control and strength. He has recently
been able to sit dynamically for seven minutes on the edge of a mat
and reach out to hit balls with his bat and right himself without help.
This is a big step because he does not have the back of a chair to
support him. Just a few nights ago, he mastered rolling from his back
to his left side, lying there for maybe a minute, and then rolling back to
his back. This increased strength and control is also evident in his new
ability to weight bear through his legs and feet when we transfer him
without the lift. He is doing better in the gait trainer (walker) with the
weight of his body properly placed over his legs and with moving his
right leg. There is more control of his left leg than before, but that leg
is still profoundly restricted by his neurological injuries.We are hopeful,
however, because we see more reflexive movement in the left leg and
occasional volitional movement. Ross now has AFOs (Ankle Foot
Orthotics) for both feet, and they make a difference in keeping his feet
and ankles in the correct position. His standing in the standing frame has
been greatly improved by these. Ross is showing that he understands
that wearing the AFOs and his hand splints helps him. At bed time, he
lifts his right leg and hands to have them splints put on and he frequently
chooses to wear them all night in contrast to just six months ago when he
would use his teeth to pull off the hand splints.
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Ross continues to pedal on the exercise bike for at least sixty minutes a day. We frequently hear from the caregiver, ‘Ross didn’t want to stop pedaling today.’ Ross also has recently learned to throw a ball for our family dog, Jo. This is an interactive activity for Ross and Jo, and his therapists say that this is BIG, a term they use for a momentous step forward.
"We have also started cooking with Ross, giving him a table knife and something soft; he is able to cut chunks and also feed it to himself. The first day Ross helped make his lunch, he said to his caregiver who was helping him eat, ‘I made this myself.’ Ross has just begun to use the computer keyboard with a special software program.”
“Ross’s speech is also progressing. While he is not yet communicating through normal dialogue, his monologue continues to develop with statements like, ‘Roll me over,’ ‘Pull me up,’ and ‘I have everything I need to be a man.’ He is also beginning to speak in a more fluid manner that is hard to understand, but is associated with increased excitement and joy. For example, we took him to San Francisco for the kickoff of an eight day ride to San Diego, a fundraiser to benefit disabled athletes in which a friend was participating. Ross was publicly introduced to the crowd in the opening ceremony as a wounded athlete. Afterward, for a whole day, Ross was exuberant, laughing and talking. We could understand some of what he was saying, but he was talking so fast and laughing so much that we didn’t understand; it was similar to talking to a toddler. However, Ross did say something that was amazing and very clear, ‘I am worried about my arm. I don’t have strength in it.’ We reassured him that he could develop more strength and are now pointing out the exercises that strengthen his arms as we do them.” Ross’s speech therapist, Dr. Deborah Swain, writes: “Ross’s ability to chew and swallow solid food has improved significantly to the extent that he is able to manage most foods with varying textures and viscosities. His chewing and swallowing pattern is nearly within normal limits. He is able to clear his mouth using his tongue which was nearly impossible for him a year ago. The sensation in his tongue has improved to the extent that he is able to feel any remaining food on his lips and tongue and able to swallow without prompts and cues. He is able to manage most liquids without coughing. Ross’s spontaneous speech has improved significantly. He is able to self formulate short sentences and phrases with intent and that are appropriate.” Ross’s biggest challenges for the coming year are to be able to go from sitting to standing with minimal support, to walk, to be able to dialogue with friends and family, and to develop more use of his fingers and hands, all of which will help him achieve more independence. Ross’s doctors are extremely pleased with Ross’s progress, and one of his neurosurgeons recently congratulated Ross and his family for Ross’s progress. A physical therapist who worked with Ross for the first year after he came home was able to work with him briefly this fall. She was amazed at the improvements he had made in two years. The Dillons continue to receive requests from doctors, therapists and others to share information with families who want to bring their loved ones home and provide the best possible care. Betsy, Ross’s mother, has been extensively researching nutrition, both food and supplements. She has been able to share this information with many families. She recently received approval from a new physician to whom Ross was referred for a metabolic workup. The doctor and her colleague each asked Betsy how she had been able to put together Ross’s supplement regimen.
In keeping with the goal of helping brain injured patients to go home, the Dillons have renamed the charitable fund for Ross The Go Home Foundation. Ross says, “Go Home” frequently, and his parents are committed to helping other patients Go Home by networking with their families. Interestingly, the other day Ross said to his mother, “You make home fun.”
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THE FINANCIAL SITUATION
Ross has relearned to move, eat, and speak simple sentences, but he has a long rehabilitation
journey ahead, during which he will be dependent on his family, caregivers, and the support of
generous people like you. The financial situation continues to be tight.
The 2004 rehabilitation budget was $128,000, the 2005 budget was $123,000 and the 2006 budget is $136,064, with SSI providing $11,916. Ross’s ongoing, net non-reimbursed rehab expenses will be $124,148 this year. The breakdown follows:
Cost Analysis for Care of Ross Dillon – 2006
(Actual costs, January 1 through November 30, of $126,064; December estimate of $10,000)
Income:
SDI and SSI $ 11,916.00
Expenses:
Accounting $ 2,600.00
Supplies $ 2,000.00
Clothing $ 495.00
Cleaning Service $ 1,800.00
Caregivers $ 81,092.00
Medical/Dental not covered $ 1,460.00
by Insurance
Food $ 5,647.00
Supplements $ 13,000.00
Therapy $ 22,400.00
Extra Utility Costs $ 812.00
Training $ 2,000.00
Equipment $ 2,758.00
$ 136,064.00
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It continues to be difficult to forecast expenses. This is because therapists aren’t always able to
work with Ross as much as he needs. Also, when a caregiver is unable to work, Betsy usually
takes the shift. Betsy has worked at least two twelve hour shifts every week during the past
year, in addition to planning and preparing Ross’s meals, researching nutritional supplements,
coordinating Ross’s medical and rehabilitation schedule and requirements, helping Ross with his
OT exercises, and providing transportation to out-of-home therapy and doctor appointments. As
Ross continues to progress, the need for more specialized therapy continues. Every moment is an
opportunity for therapy.
Ross also needs a new power wheelchair that is not included in the budget above. An old chair
that was donated and that Ross has used a little is not safe: there are no caregiver controls, it does
not adjust, it is not functional for a neurological patient, and the seat is not appropriate for long
periods of sitting. It has, however, been a big help in determining if Ross would benefit from a
motorized chair. The family and therapists have found one that will advance Ross toward more
independence and also be an adjunct to his therapy. The cost is $36,000. Two donors have given
earmarked gifts totalling $30,000 for the wheelchair, so Ross will be getting his new wheelchair
soon!
Total giving through this Thanksgiving is $53,488, plus thecontributions for the new wheelchair
and the income from SDI andSSI. The Dillon family needs to receive $70,660 in December to meet
Ross’s rehabilitation expenses for 2006. In each of the last three years more than half of the
annual giving has been contributed in December. We are hoping the same thing will happen this year.
Please remember that The Go Home Foundation, as a ministry of WaterStone, provides the
opportunity for taxdeductible donations to support Ross’s rehabilitation. Our hope is that as
you review your year-end giving, taking into consideration the tax deductibility of your gifts,
you will respond to the need as generously as possible, giving Ross
the chance to continue his heroic journey back.
TO MAKE DONATIONS
You can make a tax-deductible contribution for Ross’s rehabilitation by sending a check made
payable to WaterStone, directed to #7528 The Go Home Foundation. For
your convenience, we’ve enclosed a SASE with the appropriate form. WaterStone
will send you a receipt for your charitable gift. You can also call WaterStone with any
questions you have or to make a credit card donation (719-447-4625; calling hours 8:30-4:30,
M-F, Mountain Time). If you are considering other ways to contribute, such as direct withdrawal
from your bank (one time or continuing), gifts of appreciated assets, or donations in kind, call
WaterStone directly and they will walk you through the process. They are very friendly and helpful.
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Sincerely,
Paul Popper, Ph.D.
Project Manager, The Go Home Foundation
If you have any questions, please feel free to contact:
The Go Home Foundation is a ministry charity project with WaterStone (TID#84-143-0063). WaterStone is qualified under IRS
code sections 501(c)(3) and 509(a)(3) with the primary purpose of serving as trustee/administrator of charitable trusts. While all contributions
are complete and unrestricted gifts toWaterStone, please note that the Board of Directors are committed to honoring donor
preference and the recommended approved purpose of the fund.
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